Recently my oldest daughter, Jenilee was home between semesters of college. She attends Belmont University. She would tell you that I spent a lot of time as she and her siblings were growing up helping them understand how much your attitude affects your life. I always wanted them to know that you can change your perspective and thus change the way you respond to life.
I reminded her that when she and John, her older brother who is two years older were little we went to eat at a cafeteria once. When we walked in they both complained about how long the line was. In fact, there was a sign posted where we stood that said it would be a 20 minute wait from where we were in line.
I decided to change there perspective. I told them that if it took longer than 20 minutes I would pay them each $5. Instead, of complaining about how long the line was they wanted the people to take there time. They wanted the line to go slow. In fact, as we were approaching the end of the line and the countdown was close to 20 minutes, someone in the line spilt a glass of water. It brought the whole line to a standstill. John and Jenilee started cheering and clapping.
Our wait lasted more than 20 minutes. They got their $5. More importantly, they began to see that we always can change how we view life and as a result change how we respond.