Pat and I are on vacation together in Destin, Florida. Even though we have been here countless times, it is still our favorite vacation spot - lots of sitting on the beach reading, walking, playing golf (for me) and a time of reflection.
We are about to start a new series at FOTP Grapevine called Threads-Life is Better Together. We will look at the importance of community and how to experience authentic community.
I have stated many times over the past year or so how this is the most fulfilling time of my life. Certainly getting to pastor a church for the first time plays a huge role in that sense of fulfillment but I also have come to realize what has been missing in my life all these many years and it is simply this thing called community.
I know hundreds of people. I hardly go anywhere in the metroplex without seeing someone I know but knowing people enough to say hello when you see them is a far cry from experiencing community.
This lack of community is certainly partially my fault. I have been surrounded by people who loved me and had a desire to share their lives with me but being a task oriented person I just never took the initiative to make it happen. I needed to be in an environment that fostered community so that for the most part it could not be resisted. That is what has happened at Fellowship of the Parks. Thanks to the intentionality of the staff in creating a purpose driven church, FOTP is a place where community takes place.
This past year due to many factors including hosting our Lifegroup, I have built stronger, more meaningful relationships than ever before in my life. Some of these relationships already existed but now have been taken to a new level.
I looking forward to teaching the Threads series. My prayer is that many more people who may be suffering from CDS – Community Depravation Syndrome – will have the void in their lives filled.