Some books just have a way of explaining what you have begun to think or observe and this is one of those books. The big idea is simple and yet most Christians miss it. Osborne does a wonderful job of explaining the fact that there is no cookie cutter recipe for spiritual growth. It takes place in a variety of ways and is unique for each person.
One of my favorite chapters is titled The Case for Meandering. Osborne shares that most us do not grow by conforming to some linear pattern established to produce spiritual maturity. Most of us tend to grow on a “need to know” and “need to grow” basis. We can look back at our lives and see times when little growth was taking place as well as other times of significant growth. Those times of significant growth generally were the result of some circumstance in our lives that caused us to have a “need to know” or “need to grow” mindset.
He also has a chapter titled Fences in which he explains the danger of setting up unnecessary fences or boundaries. These fences can cause others to be discouraged, frustrated and more importantly the fences are not Biblical. There can be little doubt that many young Christ followers have lost their way because of these types of fences.
This book is liberating. It helps the reader to see the freedom they possess to grow in a unique way in their relationship with God and to allow others to have that same freedom.
I highly recommend Spirituality for the Rest of Us to anyone that has chosen to follow the ways of Christ.