In Gary Smalley’s book, The DNA of Relationships he states that how we feel about life boils down to how we feel about relationships. We are designed for relationships. It is a part of our relational DNA.
The most important concept I learned from this book was how to recognize and avoid the fear dance. If you read it and this all you get out of the book it will be worth it. This one concept has helped me to have a better marriage and healthier relationships in all aspects of my life.